The Importance of Framing By Jeff Marian Posted May 5, 2014 In Pastor Jeff's Blog 0 3 Some of the most famous painters in the world spent nearly as much time choosing a frame for their art as they did creating the art itself. Van Gogh worried incessantly about framing his work. Whistler spent so much time creating his frames that they have become a style unto themselves. Degas scandalized his contemporaries by using bright colors in his frame. And the list goes on. Artist Howard Hodgkin says that frames are “…where the picture stops and the world begins.” Just as a frame can enhance the beauty of a picture or painting, our mental framing can often determine the meaning of our experiences. Not long ago I was talking to someone who was struggling with the leadership style of our new Director of Worship Arts. This new director leads from the front of the platform, and he does so with great energy and enthusiasm, but the person I was talking to framed it as an ego issue. They were uncomfortable with the thought that the director was focusing all the attention on himself. Perfectly understandable. But I know our new Director of Worship Arts. More importantly I know his heart and his intentions. He wants nothing more than to have the congregation focus their attention, their worship and their praise on God. I suggested that the reason he leads from the front is because he frames his leadership as if the congregation were a choir singing to God and he serves as the conductor. The conductor of a great choir stands in front of the choir to lead, not to draw attention to him or herself. That simple change in framing changed everything. After the next worship service that same person came up to me and said, “I saw everything this morning from a whole different perspective. It was wonderful. I even sang out a little louder!” Perhaps our mental frame is also where the picture stops and the world begins. That experience has me thinking more carefully about the mental frames that I choose. Is the driver in the next car an obnoxious jerk or someone responding to an emergency I’ll never know about? Is that person who is always critical mean-spirited or in pain? Is the person whose skin is different than mine a threat or a friend I haven’t yet met? Perhaps it all depends upon the frame I choose. When has your choice of frame changed the way you see or experience life? Leave a comment and share your experience. Jeff Marian Recent PostsAn Epidemic of LonelinessLight in the DarknessFaith and Fly FishingBorn Again Showing 3 comments Ken Walter May 7, 2014 I have experienced the entertainer versus spirit of God frame in my mind. I relate it to an understanding I have come to of what God has created in me. My soul with mind, emotions and will uses my senses of sight, hearing etc. to view what is in this world and it is often about me and entertaining me. However I also have a spirit and that gives me connection with the Holy Spirit if I so choose, and my soul then with senses that Jesus referred to when He said, “those who have ears to hear and eyes to see”, which is recorded in the gospel several times, turns my soul to being Spirit filled. So my question to myself then is am I framing my Spirit filled soul or the world view soul observation? I more often find myself being double minded with the mix of world and Spirit and the consequent confusion in my heart. In worship and praise I find if I hold out or raise my hands there is a felt presence of the Spirit and the persons of voices and music fades into the background. This then is a question I need to review in how I look at all of life. Is there some one out there in blog land who catches what I am trying to say and can better explain this? Rich Mavis May 7, 2014 Thanks Pastor Jeff! Re-framing can be a huge step in the direction of peace and contentment! I love Mark’s leadership in worship, as I did Handt’s. Two different styles leading us personally and passionately in worshiping God! Scott Becker May 21, 2014 A great topic to bring to the forefront. As for our worship service, it’s always an adjustment period when there is change. And still it has to be something people can be comfortable with. So there just needs to be that common ground found and everyone needs to pull together. The first step is to get it out there. Everyone wants a great service to be excited to attend and participate in, particularly Mark, I expect. In time, this will work itself out. People at POP try pretty hard at getting to what works first, instead of worrying about themselves. It’s what makes it a great place.